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谦卑做人,沉稳做事

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发表于 2015-10-13 10:03:49 | 显示全部楼层 |阅读模式
  谦卑,不是自卑,是自谦,永远保持一份谦虚的情怀,行走在尘世中。----题记

  行走在红尘,每天都会遇到不同的人,也会遇到不同的事,如果不能用正确的心理面对,事态面前,自己将会坐如针毡。只有沉稳的对人对事,面对瞬息万变的风云,才能彰显自我的价值和意义。

  理性的面对自己,自己只是一个一日三餐的普通人,没有呼风唤雨的本事,也没有未雨绸缪的先知。只能在不断的实践中锻炼自己,让自己在增长成熟阅历的时候,提高修养,磨练心智,在一次次的风侵雨袭中,学会沉稳,一次比一次稳重。

  虚心的像别人请教,遇事,多想,多问,不要觉得问别人是降低自己的身价。相反,问别人,在听取别人好的建议的同时,也使自己与他人的感情,进一步加深融洽。对于一个骄傲自大,不懂得听取别人意见的人,只会封闭自己,就算不是众叛亲离,最后也只能是孤家寡人一个。

  在朋友圈,要注意发现朋友的长处,随时以友之长,补自己之短。让自己在磨平棱角的同时,丰盈内涵。

  哪怕是芝麻绿豆的小事,也要用谦恭的态度,听听多方的意见,然后一一推断,拿出一个良好的解决方案。

  世界上没有十全十美的人,就像美丽的四季,都有自己不一样的精彩纷呈,也有自己缺憾的一面。要懂得发现自己的缺点,一点一点认真的面对自己,拿出决心和坦然面对的态度,勇敢的发现,也勇敢的改正。打败自己的,往往不是事情的复杂性,而是骄傲自大,总觉得自己是对的,手中的镜子,总是放大自己的优点,缩小自己的缺点,有一点点成绩就沾沾自喜,在自己给自己的虚幻光环里,迷失自己。

  自己的弱点像泥潭,若不是在初入泥潭的边缘,自己挣扎着爬出来,只能越陷越深。缺点的泥潭,是一个柔软的陷阱,柔柔的,软软的,陷在里面,是惬意的享受,如果自己一味的感受着泥潭的绵软,不及时的抽出脚步,埋没的可能是前程似锦的人生。

  小心驶得万年船,在事情面前,懂得三思而后行。

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